Good in Bed? Here is A Journey inside the Male Brain

Before you can truly please your man and give him satisfaction that he is going to remember for a long time to come, you first of all need to understand his thought process and how it works. Pleasing a man is about more than just physical stimulation. Of course, the focus for men is on physical stimulation, but if you really want to please him to his core and truly make an everlasting impression on him, you need to understand how his mind works.

The male brain works in a much different way than the female brain. Rather than being intricate and complex, the male brain is simple yet efficient. Men use pictures to associate an emotion or arousal, rather than words. This is the main reason why there are so many magazines catered to men. Men like to look at things to get arousal, rather than read. Women are more turned on by reading something, such as a romance novel. Women are able to turn these words into something visual in their minds and they then use that to become aroused. Some men are able to do this, but it is very rare. Instead, men feed off of visual stimulation. If you want to get him aroused, you need to create visual stimulation for him. This is how he gets aroused in the best and fastest way. When he sees something that he wants or that he desires, he uses that image instantly. He doesn’t change it or interpret it in a certain way like what a woman would do. He just goes off of what he sees.

The male brain also doesn’t hold onto bad memories as much as the female brain. When a woman is affected by something in a negative way, her mind remembers the way it made her feel. The male brain doesn’t do this. If the two of you were to get into a fight, chances are you are going to remember how upset it made you and you are going to hang onto how it made you feel. Your man doesn’t do this. Men don’t latch onto emotion and they don’t allow it to affect them. After an argument, men tend to want something physical because that is how he knows you are still into him. However, the last thing any woman wants after a fight is sex because her emotions are taking over and that is something that she cannot shake.

In order to please your man the right way, you need to know these things. You need to know that he doesn’t think about things the way that you do. Men are not as in touch with their emotional side as women and women need to realize this. He may do things and not realize that it makes you upset. You cannot sit there and hope that he understands why you are upset; you have to tell him. You must take a direct approach with your man and this is how you are going to be able to truly satisfy him.

You need to be upfront with your man sexually. You can’t play mind games with him in the bedroom because he won’t catch on. The only way to really get him going is to show him or tell him. Having him guess what you are thinking and what you are hinting at what you want to do is not going to work. You need to start taking a direct approach to being intimate with your man because this is how men respond.

Also, men want what they can’t have and this is true for all men. All men love a challenge and so if you put something in front of him that he can’t have, he is going to want it more and more. This holds true for both sexes but it is especially prevalent in males. You can use this to your advantage in the bedroom. Teasing a man can really get him going, but just as long as you follow it up with pleasure. The last thing any man wants is a woman who doesn’t follow through on what she says. You can tease the hell out of him and drive him to the brink of orgasm, but you better follow it up afterwards. Teasing a man and giving him a challenge will make him focus on that challenge. He will want it and he will do everything in his power to get it. The testosterone will start flowing, the blood pumping through his veins and his arousal will be off the charts.

Now that you have a better understanding of how the male brain works, you are now ready to give him more stimulation. You are now ready to understand how to touch a man and how you can give him even more pleasure.