What It Takes to Be a Seductress
In order to truly please a man, we have to start with YOU. You may think that focusing on you has nothing to do with sex, oral sex, fondling, dirty talk, or passionate kissing but it absolutely does. In fact, it is paramount. Your sexual confidence has a lot to do with how you do all of these things to and with your partner. Without sexual confidence, you won’t be able to truly please your man and you will never feel pleasure yourself. You have to work on you before you can work on him.
Sexual confidence in one’s self is the number one problem that women have when it comes to sexual activities with their partner. When you are worrying about your body, your hair, that blemish on your face and various other issues going on in your life, your focus is not where it should be and that focus should be on him. He can tell when you are thinking about something else. He can detect when you are distracted. He knows when something is on your mind and he can especially tell when you two are making love and your focus is not on him. This kills the moment instantly. Nothing is more of a turn off than this. He can sense your energy, even if you don’t think that is possible. Men are very receptive of sexual energy and therefore, your man deserves to have ALL of your attention when you are intimate. That is when the two of you are really going to enjoy yourselves in the bedroom. That is when you have the best sex possible. In order to give him all of your attention, you have to be confident and forget about the little things.
When you are intimate with your man, you worry constantly if he would prefer the ideal woman. You worry that your body is imperfect and that you just can’t capture his attention. This makes intimacy impossible because you can never truly let go and get lost in the moment. Your man is able to do this every single time you are intimate. He doesn’t worry about the men in Hollywood and what you think of them; he is worrying about you and your pleasure. His only concern is ensuring that you are sexually satisfied and pleased. This is an important idea that women can learn from men. We ALL need to forget about society’s notions of what is perfect and start to love ourselves. This is how you get lost in the moment with your man and allow two to become one. This is how you become a sex goddess and the ultimate seductress.
The more you can start to accept your imperfections, the more you will see the real you in a better light.
It’s time for you to not only transform who you are as a lover, but who you are as a woman. If you are ready to being the transformation and to shed the good girl skin, then let’s begin.
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