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It’s extremely difficult to let go of a great sex partner, even if you know they are not right for you in many other ways. Most of us have experienced at one time or another being involved with someone who was absolutely incredible in bed, but we had sense enough to move on for various other reasons. Unfortunately, the memories of being with them linger in our minds and haunt us from time to time. For whatever reason, you may not end up in a happily ever after fairytale with the person you are presently seeing, but you can live on forever in their minds. A great lover is impossible to forget. So, how do you become unforgettable? The willingness to Learn! Whether you are a woman or a man, the only way to become good or great at anything is to have the intention of being so. In the long run, no one is great at anything by accident. It all starts with having the desire and the willingness to put in the effort. Naturally, with each new relationship one becomes involved in, the first few s...

It also goes without saying, but we’ll say it over and over again, that while it’s totally normal to be curious about what guys want in bed , it’s equally important to be curious about what works for you , and to be able to communicate that with your partner. The best way to figure out what that is, exactly, is by experimenting with different types of touch , sex toys, erotica, and more. Advocating for yourself in the bedroom is the best way to make sure your desires are met, too. Remember: Your pleasure matters just as much as your partner’s does, and your needs are just as important. Open Communication Don’t be afraid to show them (literally, with your hands) how you like it. Move his hands, position your body, and use verbal and nonverbal communication to ensure a good time for you both This goes both ways, because ideally, he'd express his desires to you, too. But a partner who can explain exactly how they want to be touched is endlessly sexy and could create an open lane of co...

This is frustrating. Not your situation, mine. Because now I have to write the phrase that will destroy the thesis of many people online who desperately want to believe that I am - to use their whimsical turn of phrase - “an irrational man-hating feminazi.” And I truly hate to disappoint. But I must. So here we go: This isn’t men’s fault. Like many people who have sex with men, you have discovered the odd little quirk in men’s physicality which can cause them to physically power-down after sex, leaving many a disgruntled partner fuming beside a man now happily snoring in post-orgasmic bliss - or as in your case, a man now happily awake but sexually disinterested in post-orgasmic bliss. Following orgasm, men experience a refractory period, which is the recovery phase during which it is physically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms. During this time, the penis may be sensitive and further sexual stimulation may actually be painful, which is why men shouldn’t keep trying to h...

One thing for sure is that without intimacy of some kind sooner or later your relationship will start having issues. But, maybe the fact that you are aware of your partner's limitations it could be your turn to direct your sex lives into the right direction. But to get started, these guidelines may help you: 1) Tell your partner you need to talk and decide on a time you can have an uninterrupted conversation (not while you’re getting ready for work in the morning). 2) Once you have their full attention, present the facts as clearly and non-judgmentally as you can (“We haven’t had sex when I am horny, despite the few times I’ve tried to initiate it,”. Some people might be very aware of their behavior, but others might not. Give your spouse the benefit of the doubt and see how they respond before assuming they’ve been aware of their behavior and indifferent to the damage it has caused. 3) State the emotional impact their rejections have on you using "I statements" (“It make...

Initiate the session to request your needs Texting can feel a bit safer and it lets you be yourself. You can text whatever comes to your mind, even if you might hesitate before saying it out loud. And don't be above using it to initiate sex. You could tell him " I could use a pussy massage tonight ." The time has come, what do you actually say to make him understand you want him to give you oral sex? This takes us to the next step; On requesting the oral sex Try a more playful approach and tell him that you want to play a game where his challenge is to get you as wet and aroused as possible. The rules: He has immediate access to every inch of your bod, but may use only his hands and mouth to touch you. Encourage him to linger at your favorite hot spots by being vocal when he's rubbing you the right way.  Once he sees the results of his efforts (a horny-as-hell girlfriend),  in future he would be the one to suggest frequently. On  being comfortable in your own skin ...