The Golden Technique to drive your man wild in bed – Enthusiasm

While there is an encyclopedia of knowledge through each guide on how to perfect your sexual moves to your man, you may be wondering what the best technique is?

The number one sex technique is actually an attitude. It’s…

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is by far the most powerful thing you can incorporate into your sex skills AND sex life. Think about it this for a minute…

Have you ever been merely going through the motions with a guy, where he seemed almost uninterested and unenthusiastic about getting it on? It’s a real turn off and can make you feel very unsexy.

On the other hand, have you ever been with a guy who can’t keep his hands off you, who looks at you like a lion eyeing his prey and when you do get intimate with him, he kisses you with intense passion and makes love to you with his entire being. It’s like he’s possessed and all he can think of is…you.

It’s incredibly arousing.

He’s acting with complete enthusiasm and focus on you.

This is the power of enthusiasm.

When you give your man a blow job (or hand job or have sex with him) while being completely enthusiastic about it and totally focused on him, it’s going to massively arouse and turn him on.

So even if you’re aren’t totally sure about what you’re doing, just focus on being enthusiastic. You’ll be surprised at how much this enhances the experience for your man. You don’t have to give a perfect blow job if you’re really enthusiastic and into it!

Here are two examples that should open your eyes to the importance of enthusiasm when giving a guy a blow job.

1. Imagine that you have little experience of giving blow jobs. You aren’t sure what to do, but you can’t wait to go down on your man. When you get him alone, you push him down on the bed, rip his pants off, and quickly take him into your mouth.

You’re using a simple up & down motion and nothing else, but he can hear your enthusiastic slurping, see that you are enjoying yourself, and feel your hands all over his body as you feel the pleasure you are giving him. You are entirely lost in the moment and seem joyfully fixated on making him cum.

2. Now imagine being very experienced and you agree to give your man a blow job. First, you ask him to shower and take out the trash. You then place a pillow on the floor to protect your knees and take off your top, because your priority is keeping it clean.

You then start giving him a blow job using multiple techniques, but you don’t make a sound or seem enthusiastic at all. You stay on your knees and barely move at all. You’re completely out of the moment and are thinking about work emails.

Which is hotter?

Scenario #1, obviously!

That’s the power of enthusiasm. Even if you are a complete beginner, being enthusiastic automatically makes your blow jobs feel incredible.

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