A man or a woman, here is a time tested trick to be unforgettable in bed

It’s extremely difficult to let go of a great sex partner, even if you know they are not right for you in many other ways.

Most of us have experienced at one time or another being involved with someone who was absolutely incredible in bed, but we had sense enough to move on for various other reasons.

Unfortunately, the memories of being with them linger in our minds and haunt us from time to time. For whatever reason, you may not end up in a happily ever after fairytale with the person you are presently seeing, but you can live on forever in their minds.

A great lover is impossible to forget.

So, how do you become unforgettable?

The willingness to Learn!

Whether you are a woman or a man, the only way to become good or great at anything is to have the intention of being so. In the long run, no one is great at anything by accident.

It all starts with having the desire and the willingness to put in the effort.

Naturally, with each new relationship one becomes involved in, the first few sessions will entail going through your standard “go-to moves” based on your past experiences.

No two people are the same.

However, in a long-term relationship or marriage, one is presented with an opportunity to refine their skills for their specific mate. Given time, you can learn what every sigh or body movement means. Communicating desires and fantasies outside of the bedroom is just as important as giving cues inside the bedroom.

Monogamy becomes boring when couples become lazy.

This means great lovers are made, not born.

It mostly boils down to listening, paying attention, and being flexible with your technique. Anybody can do those things even if there's some rough starts where you're learning said new techniques.

Anyway, in guide number 1 from the Reads For COUPLES guides, I talk about Positions for Having Sex a New Way Everyday as a way to learn more about sex.

The idea is simple really and can be likened to public speaking. Most people are bad at public speaking because they rarely do it.

To become a better public speaker, you practice public speaking.

To become a better lover…have more sex!

I don’t know how much experience you have, but whether you’re young or old…having more sex will improve your sexual confidence.

Especially if you’re in a new relationship, having sex might seem like a weird thing to do. It takes getting used to. This is a new person, and you want to make sure they like you.

So…have more sex! When you have more sex, you’ll learn what turns your partner on, what makes her wet, what makes her scream in pleasure and what drives him crazy in bed