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Why ‘shallowing’ could benefit your relationship in the bedroom

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If your sex life has started to feel routine, or if penetration alone isn’t delivering the pleasure you expected, it’s time to understand a technique that actually aligns with how the female body works. Shallowing is a form of sexual stimulation that focuses on the entrance of the vagina rather than deep thrusting. Instead of full penetration, stimulation is kept at or just inside the vaginal opening using the tip of the penis, fingers, lips, tongue, or a sex toy. It can be practiced with a partner or explored solo. This isn’t a gimmick. It’s anatomy. Unlock the full guide library: •   All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here   •  Men’s 20 sex Guides here   •  Women’s 8 sex Guides here   •  Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily) . Why Shallowing Feels So Good The vaginal entrance contains a dense concentration of nerve endings. For many women, this outer area, along with the clitoral network, is far more sensitive than deeper internal structures. Re...

Fact! Women Fake Orgasms, Men Fake Emotional Availability

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This is a comparative study in bedroom bullshit and relationship cosplay. Let’s be brutally honest for once: the bedroom has been running on two parallel counterfeit economies for decades. Women have perfected the art of the theatrical climax, moans pitched somewhere between wounded opera diva and dying dolphin, back arching like they’re trying to escape their own skeleton, the classic “Oh god, yes, right there… keep going… almost… almost…” followed by the sudden, Oscar-worthy stillness that signals mission accomplished (for him, mostly). Meanwhile, across the same mattress, men have been quietly minting their own fake currency: Emotional Availability-  the deluxe limited-edition version that comes with soft eye contact, thoughtful “hmms,” and the occasional “I’m really not good at this feelings stuff but I’m trying, babe” delivered in the same tone one uses to apologise for scratching the car. Both performances deserve their own award categories at the Annual Relational Bullshit O...

He Feels Replaced by My Vibrator; But I’m Done Faking

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Before we dive right into it you may want to  Download Sex Guides For MEN in PDF & EPUB here!  OR  Download Sex Guides For WOMEN in PDF & EPUB here! If your boyfriend feels threatened by your wand, this isn’t about the toy. It’s about ego, insecurity, and a misunderstanding of how orgasms actually work. Let’s strip this down to what’s really happening. You use a vibrator because it helps you orgasm. He understands that. But emotionally, he wishes you didn’t “need” it. That tension is common, and it usually stems from one deeply ingrained belief: that a man should be the sole cause of his partner’s orgasm. That belief is flawed. Orgasms Are Not a Solo Performance Many people grow up believing it’s a partner’s “job” to make someone climax. When that doesn’t happen effortlessly, it can feel like failure. But orgasms are complex. They involve the nervous system, arousal patterns, emotional safety, stimulation type, stress levels, and mental focus. The most power...

Rich Women Fake More Orgasms, And It's Not Because They're Bad In Bed

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Before we dive right into it you may want to  Download Sex Guides For MEN in PDF & EPUB here!  OR  Download Sex Guides For WOMEN in PDF & EPUB here! Women have historically been hypergamous. Think about those old-fashioned balls where extravagant parties were thrown so suitors could travel from afar in an attempt to woo a woman. When she was married off, the man often had to pay a dowry to her father to prove his competence and ability to provide. It sounds archaic now, but it existed for a reason. Fast forward to today, and women have challenged this structure entirely. The logic was simple. If we can be our own providers, we gain more freedom in who we choose as partners. What's the harm in dating a man who's cute, charming, and kind but doesn't earn as much? Why should income matter if he has other redeeming qualities? Turns out, it might matter more than we'd like to admit. In couples where women out-earn their partners, women are roughly twice as likely to ...

How often most couples actually have sex as scientists issue warning for women who do it less than once a week

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Before we dive right into it you may want to  Download Sex Guides For MEN in PDF & EPUB here!  OR  Download Sex Guides For WOMEN in PDF & EPUB here! Let’s start with the truth: there is no universal “correct” amount of sex a couple should be having. Anyone promising you a magic number is oversimplifying something deeply personal. That said, research does give us useful insight into patterns—and those patterns can help you understand where you stand and whether changes might benefit your relationship. Is There a “Normal” Frequency? According to leading sexual health organizations, the normal frequency of sex is simply the frequency that both partners agree works for them. For some couples, that means several times a week. For others, it may mean once a month. Satisfaction—not comparison—is the real benchmark. The problem is that many people don’t measure satisfaction. They measure themselves against what they think other couples are doing. That comparison is usuall...

I Hate Masturbating, but I Can Orgasm When I Do. Once I’m With a Guy, I Can’t.

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Before we dive right into it you may want to  Download Sex Guides For MEN in PDF & EPUB here!  OR  Download Sex Guides For WOMEN in PDF & EPUB here! Difficulty orgasming during partnered sex is not rare. It is one of the most common sexual concerns among women today. If you can orgasm on your own but not with a partner, that tells us something very important: your body works. The issue is not your ability to feel pleasure. The issue is what changes when another person enters the picture. Let’s break this down clearly and practically. If You Can Orgasm Alone, That’s a Strength Even if you dislike masturbating, the fact that you can bring yourself to orgasm is powerful information. It means: You understand what kind of stimulation works for your body. Your nervous system is capable of reaching climax. There is no physical “defect.” Instead of dismissing solo pleasure because you dislike it, use it as data. Ask yourself: What type of touch do I use? Ho...

How long women really want sex to last compared to men's average time in bedroom

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Before we dive right into it you may want to  Download Sex Guides For MEN in PDF & EPUB here!  OR  Download Sex Guides For WOMEN in PDF & EPUB here! If you’ve ever wondered whether your bedroom sessions are “long enough,” you’re not alone. Duration is one of the most common silent anxieties in relationships. The good news? We have data—and it tells a clearer story than myths or locker-room talk ever could. What Women Say Is Ideal In a large survey of 4,000 sexually active adults aged 18 to 35 , participants were asked two simple questions: How long does sex usually last? How long would you ideally like it to last? Women reported that their ideal duration for intercourse was 25 minutes and 51 seconds. That timeframe, according to respondents, felt long enough to create both emotional satisfaction and physical fulfillment. Interestingly, men’s ideal duration was almost identical: 25 minutes and 43 seconds. That alone should shift the narrative. Most men are not aimi...